
Keah
Dec 24, 20252 min read
Livin’ Clear : Awareness, Discernment, Ownership
There’s a pattern here—and once I saw it, I couldn’t unsee it. Like in Runaway Bride, where everyone thinks she loves their favorite kind of eggs, I realized I’ve been doing the same thing in relationships. I like what he likes. I value what he values. I adapt. I adjust. I agree. It never feels like losing myself in the moment—it feels like loving well. But after 23 years of marriage and another 3 year relationship, I can finally name it: I stopped liking the version of mysel














































